just to add, i made a mistake at the end of last sentence, should have read i have no recorded messages with his threats as yet, thankyou for all your interest and advice,to gloss over my story, g/f has female freind whose married to guy i,m trying to track down, he took a fancy to my g/f, said she stole money, blackmailed her into an affair, then filmed it, he dissapaered from scene,in the meantime i meet my g/f, we plan to marry soon,he reappears on scene, wants to reignite affair, she tells him me and her plan to marry, he has tracked me down,and told me he will go to police, about the stealing,(totally untrue as g/f has access to my account and not a penny has gone missing),and will put sex tape on the web,i want to keep her out of this,and i have a police contact who will revoke his visa and have him removed in 24 hrs,but i would like to do my bit infinding this guy, and not take up valuable police time, unless this matter becomes too much, thank you for taking the time to read this